Jumaat, 30 Oktober 2009

How to heal (^_^)...




I dedicated this topic to sumone who is in confucius & can't think straight..hehe..(jaja u better read this carefully..!!)Mmmm..where to start actually?? For introduction la ek, confuse to make decision is a normal thing for everybody especially to decide 'sumthing' big for ur future life, rite? Ecewah..cam pakar kaunselor ar plop aku ni..hahaha..xdela aku cakap based own my own experience...i was sooo bad in making decisions...(sbb tu la xdpt jd pegawai gamaknyo..haha..)

Ooopss..back to our topic, korang pernah x fall in love at wrong time??xpaham??Cenggini maksud aku, jatuh cinta biler dh ada cinta..haha..cam doc lurve plop rase.. Sebenarnye aku bukan ape, juz nak curahkan idea n sharing nga korang klu2 korang ader cdgn yg lg bernas utk topic ni..leh kita kongsi sama2..tak gitu babes?

Aku bg contoh situasi sorang pall aku k, dah dekat nak tunang tetiba ati dia dh jatuh sampai tergolek2 kat sumbody that she neva expect would knocking her heart. Yela..giler ko nak fall in love when u already have one. Lau players tu len cite la, masalahnye skrg bercinta ngan bakal tunang dah almost 5 years (rite dude?) tup2 dh dekat ngan majlis jd cenggini..mau xgelong kepala pk nak teruskan ke x nak teruskan engagement tu..

Biler dalam situasi camni kadang2 kita jd kurang waras utk buat pertimbangan...pernah dengar x orang cakap, 'benda' klu masih baru xde yang xeloknye semua nampak perfect,weaknesses lgsg xnampak tp kalu benda dh lama, yang elok pn nampak xelok, pendek kato serba xkena. So camtu jgk dgn kehidupan kita, klu dh lamer ngat couple kdg2 raser boring tu memamg akan wujud lg2 lau ngah gaduh, memang xleh nak control kan? Then ape kaitan nga topic kita skrg ni ek?

Meh aku nak explain, i'll make it short k?dlm hbgn pn memang camtu la...klu dh lama sgt bercinta lg la banyak dugaan, ape yg penting..bear in mind "we have to love sumone that loves us mo than we do"...aku rase tu la kunci bahagia dia..klu ngah panas @ sakit ati @ fade up @ give up nga prangai si dia, try to think what is the best thing he had done to u that others neva did. Lg satu guys, new relationship is sweet b'coz everything happend under control & unnatural. Each of u try to be & to look perfect for each other. Otherwise u're cheating each other, am i rite?

Jadi pada aku, stick to ur lover who is always be there for u no matter how hard u strive to make ur day. Lagi2 bile kita dh ader hala tuju dlm hbgn b4 the third party appeared, but depend on cituation too..klu dh sampai xboleh nak bahagia lgsg ngan existing relation no point la kita nak take risk nak survive gak..kang jd jandi xpasal2..hehehe... (na'uzubillah)..

Tp still xleh nk lupakan third party tu? Aku rase the best way to heal is to keep him away. Trust me..Keep the distance will help u to cure that feeling. SO babes ko dh nampak ape point utama? Chayok2....!!! All the best k?

Semua ni hanya la idea aku semata2..Sesapa lg yg ader idea leh ar tulum aku, gimme urs... (",) Aku nak balik dh ni..c ya next monday.

2 ulasan:

Unknown berkata...

but dear, this feeling is getting worse :(

Unna Adnan berkata...

U've to be strong babes..jangan ikut ati sgt..i know ur feeling but juz giv ur self a try..